How many of you feel obligated to give physical gifts? How many of you
have received gifts that broke soon after and were not recyclable? How many of you
have sat and wondered at the giant pile of wrapping paper that was left over on
Christmas morning? Did you know
that in Canada, the annual waste from gift-wrap and shopping bags equals about
545,000 tons which is enough paper and bags to cover 45,000 hockey rinks?
The holidays are a time of celebration, family gatherings and we create
the space to remember and celebrate the things we are grateful for. Sometimes these core focuses at holiday
time can become thoroughly overwhelmed by expectations on our time and
resources. Holiday parties and
gift giving can instigate feelings of guilt and overwhelm as many of us pack
our social schedules and feel pressured to gift give and participate. Not only
does it put pressure on our time, resources, health and well being it also
affects our efforts to green our lives and live sustainably. Thankfully there
are ways to be green that do not dampen the spirit of our favorite holiday
activities like sharing meals, meeting up with friends and exchanging gifts.
Being green during the holidays doesn’t have to be hard and can
actually be a very fun and creative exercise. The following are suggestions to
easy strategies:
Tip 1:
Reduce
The ol’ gift exchange between family members or within your circle of
friends falls under this category and is a wonderful way to reduce the pressure
to gift everyone with something and reduces the impact on our environment by
consuming less. Wrapping
gifts in reusable cloth bags or colorful green shopping bags that can be used
later is a creative way of reducing the amount of gift-wrap that is thrown in
the landfill during the holidays. If you travel during the holidays by air or
motor vehicle, you can choose to give the gift of carbon offsets and make your
trip carbon neutral that reduces your contribution to adding extra carbon
dioxide to the environment.
Tip 2:
Substitute
Number one on this list is the opportunity to get rid of toxins! They
can be present in pretty much everything: that new sweater for Dad, those
plastic toys for the kids, the pretty smelling candle for a friend, and the new
bottle of perfume for Mom. Even old, fake plastic Christmas trees can contain
lead and phthalates contained in the PVC used to make the trees. Look for gifts that are toxin free:
gifts made from natural fibers such as hemp, organic cotton, silk, bamboo; kids
toys free of BPA, phthalates, lead and sweat shop free (buy local!); vegetable
based, soy or bees wax candles scented with essential oils; and essential oil
based perfumes.
Another suggestion is to give the gift of your favorite recipes or food
products. Last year, I bought a
dozen mason jars from the thrift store and filled them with ingredients for a
chocolate chip cookie recipe and put the recipe with a ribbon on the jar. This
kind of idea reuses items, nourishes the receiver, provides an opportunity to
create a family activity in the kitchen and have some fun!
Tip 3:
Give Services Not Products
Your friends and family will love this tip. Not only does it save you
time and energy running around at holiday time, battling the shopping crowds,
it gifts them some of your time, energy and skills or a service they could
really benefit from. Consider where you might be able to help someone by
gifting him or her with your time, energy and skills instead of just reaching
for your wallet to buy something.
Providing your loved ones with services instead of products is a great
opportunity to support their health and wellbeing. Other ideas include a gift certificate to a spa (non-toxic
of course) for body-nourishing services that will help them relax is a welcome
alternative to finding the right gift for that someone that “has
everything”. This could also
include haircuts, massages, chiropractic or naturopathic doctor care. It’s also a great way of including the
family: why not challenge your children to think about services they could
provide like babysitting, mowing lawns, gardening, running errands and help
them to create a creative gift voucher?
Tip 4:
Think Outside the Box
I once had someone boldly state to me that money was only good for
buying “things”. I actually
strongly disagree and feel there are many ways that money can be used in a
supportive, non-traditional consumerism way. Even though it might seem faux pas
to give cash, why not consider setting up an RESP (registered education savings
plan) for friends or family members? Another opportunity is to use your money
to help grow local economies and contribute to education and wellbeing
initiatives provided through local non-profit organizations or charities.
Likely there are thousands of organizations to choose from in your area so pick
your topic and research organizations you resonate with. The best part is you
can usually make a contribution in someone’s name. Several years ago when I was
living in Australia, I ‘adopted’ (on paper) two koalas in my father and
brother’s names. They were excited to receive a koala for a Christmas present!
If you are more focused on supporting people in developing nations,
check out KIVA.org, which provides a
user-friendly portal for micro-lending. With as little as $25 you can support
someone in a developing nation. Oxfam Unwrapped is
another great program that allows you to support farmers in developing nations
by purchasing anything from a family of ducks, a pig, a water well, fruit trees
or a pile of manure!
Including “green” in your
holidays is not a difficult and only requires a slight shift in mindset. In no
way does it impact the quality of time you have or your sense of satisfaction
during the holidays. In fact, you might find it contributes to an improved
sense of connection with friends and family and a deeper sense of peace and
wellbeing for yourself.
Happy Holidays!
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